TMI Tuesday: Cum, are you a fan?

Cum, are you a fan?

1. We are all incurable sex addicts, but name one thing—a job, a passion, a creative outlet, a collection—of yours you use as a replacement, a distraction from constantly thinking about sex 24/7.

Things that distract me from thinking about sex: my family, facebook, reading anybody's posts about their kids.

2. Have you ever loved somebody so much you thought having sex with them would actually sully the pristine purity of that love?

Yes. I have a close friend I really care about and we've flirted, but he's married (not an open marriage) and we both respect each other and his relationship too much for sex to be an option between us.

3. If you could make love to yourself, would you? Describe this experience in full detail.

That's an interesting question... I think I have a hard time appreciating my good qualities as much as my close friends and lovers have, so even if I could make love to myself it probably wouldn't be as meaningful as someone else making love to me. That said, sometimes it would be really nice to get the full physical experience of making love without the complications of being involved with someone else.

4. Cum, are you a fan? Explain and expound.

Cum is good.

5. Does it creep you out to know that God is watching you as you’re fucking?  

God created sex, so why shouldn't I enjoy it? Also I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, so I don't mind the idea of being watched, though I've never thought much about God watching.

Bonus: Tell us something sexy that happened to you this week.

I went to a sex toy party this weekend, and tried out the pvc bondage tape on someone I just met.

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TMI Tuesday: Pain and Pleasure

I know it's not Tuesday, but I found this list of questions and thought it'd be fun to play along.

1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?

Definitely pleasure. Not that some biting and such can't be both, but I don't get off on being really hurt. And my tolerance for pain tends to be low.

2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?

I'm incredibly ticklish and have a love/hate relationship with being tickled. I have to really trust someone to let them tickle me and even then it easily becomes too much. Tickling tends to put me in a different frame of mind than sex though, so haven't really tried putting them together.

3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?

I've had feathers used on me as foreplay.

4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?

Not really. I like more control than that. Sometimes I like to close my eyes with someone I trust, but most of the time I like to see what's happening.

5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?

I've played with ice cubes, though it's not usually one of my favorite things. I love when a guy has really warm hands and puts them on me, and I think I'd enjoy more playing with heat.

6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?

An occasional light spanking I can enjoy, but my pain tolerance tends to be low and I've found I can't really enjoy more than a smack or two at a time. As far as giving spankings, when I've tried I've usually hurt my hand before getting a reaction from the person I'm with.

7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?

I've had safewords in the past and occasionally used them. I'm not currently in a relationship to need one, so right now I don't have a safeword.


Bonus: Tell us in 3-4 sentences the most painful or pleasurable sexual experience you have had.

It's hard to pick one experience to tell about. A lot of my best sexual experiences I don't even remember details of so much as just feeling really incredibly good and being left in a happy fog of post orgasm goodness.


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